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I fell off and didn’t “Just Get Back On” and this is why…

June 19, 2024 No Comments

As much as we try and minimise risks, falling off a horse is something that every rider will likely experience, but what happens next is crucial. The age-old advice to “just get back on” can sometimes do more harm than good. In this blog, I’ll explain why it’s important to pause, assess, and understand both […]

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Monday Motivation – stuck in a rider rut?

April 22, 2024 No Comments

Who wanted to stay in bed this morning? I did! Mondays can be tough particularly when you feel in a bit of a rut and it feels like it’s another Monday and nothing is shifting. Perhaps your pony time this weekend didn’t go as you hoped? Have you been stuck ‘ground hog day’ style for […]

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Confidence, Rider Psychology

Equestrian Mindset tools to be Truly Scrumptious

January 25, 2024 No Comments

I am sure I am not alone in the experience of signing up for something and then having the “Oh my goodness, I actually have to do it now!” moment. What was yours? Mine, was auditioning for Chitty Chitty Bang Bang and now the show is just weeks away. Had a big wobble last week […]

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When Auntie Stole My Horse: A Tale of Unexpected Equine Adventures

November 13, 2023 No Comments
A horse in a Dually headcollar being led in the woods

Once upon a time in the charming Lambourn countryside, where the grass is always green and the neighs of horses serenade the rolling hills, something extraordinary happened. My dear aunt, with a heart as big as the open fields, managed to pull off the most unexpected heist – she stole my horse! Now, before you […]

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How Very Horsey, Rider Psychology

Gallop into the Future: An End of Year Review for Horse Riders

November 1, 2023 No Comments
Horses mutually grooming in the field

As the days grow shorter and the air turns crisp, many horse riders find themselves reflecting on the year that’s passed and setting their sights on the horizons of the year to come. Horses riders are notorious for prioritising their horse’s needs….. However, just as our trusty steeds benefit from regular check-ups, so too do […]

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Horse Training, How Very Horsey, Rider Psychology

A bit about Barney….

October 16, 2023 No Comments
Barney the gorgeous 4 year old irish sports horse

The delightful Barney came into our lives a year ago. We had discussed the idea of getting a young horse but nothing seemed to fit. One message from Simon Charlesworth and something felt different. He was only 3 so I couldn’t see him ‘do’ much but I put a pole out in the school and […]

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How Very Horsey, Lifestyle

Lessons from loss: Navigating life after losing my horse

September 19, 2023 4 Comments

It’s said that the bond between a horse and rider is one of the most profound connections one can experience. If you’ve ever been fortunate enough to share your life with a horse, you’ll understand the depth of this statement. Horses aren’t just animals; they become family, friends, and confidants. And when you lose one, […]

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Rider Psychology

Embracing Vulnerability: A Lesson for Equestrians from Lewis Capaldi at Glastonbury

July 13, 2023 2 Comments
Barney jumping at his first event.

The culture of bravery in the horse world can be overwhelming. Strength, just ‘getting back on’ and getting on with it, riding whilst injured are often celebrated. It’s easy, in that set up, to forget the power of authenticity and vulnerability. I believe that when we allow ourselves to truly open up about our struggles […]

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Horse Training, Rider Psychology

Moving stables with your horse – managing anxiety and finding stability

June 15, 2023 No Comments

Moving stables can be an overwhelming experience, both for the owners and the horses themselves. Horses thrive on routine and familiarity almost as much as we do! I moved stables recently and was surprised by the impact it had so wanted to share some tips and advice with you to make the transition easier. Your […]

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Lifestyle

How to get Christmas right – the horse girl edit

November 28, 2022 No Comments

Horse people are a pretty hardy bunch generally. But one thing truly terrifies them and that things is………. a non-horsey person buying them a horsey gift. Every horse person has received a horse calendar or a horse mousemat at some point – generally as part of a secret santa or from a non-horsey partner. Fake […]

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About Me

“No hour of life is wasted that is spent in the saddle.” I consider myself to be fortunate to have had access to some of the most gifted horse men and women on the planet. I started riding at 12 – introduced to the horse world by American Horse Whisperer Monty Roberts and his protege Kelly Marks (who happens to be my aunt!). That was 1998 and my first foray into showing was in the Search for a Star final at the Horse of the Year Show that year – although clueless is the only word to describe my performance.

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