Have you ever felt like your biggest obstacle isn’t your horse, the weather, or even the jump in front of you… but yourself? If so, you’re not alone. I have been there… So many riders do all the preparation….. schooling, lessons, fitness….. only to find their own inner voice derailing them when it matters most. […]
It’s easy to get caught up in the big picture—the clear rounds, the perfect transitions, the dream rides in the countryside. But real success isn’t built on dramatic leaps; it’s forged through small, consistent steps that build strength, confidence, and resilience over time. This lesson is one I’m living daily. After having surgery on my […]
As we gallop toward the end of the year, it’s natural to feel the weight of 2024—its challenges, triumphs, and the mental clutter that can accumulate along the way. Much like mucking out a stable to ensure it’s clean and ready for a fresh start, now is the perfect time for a good mind muck […]
I often hear riders say, “I’ve tried everything, and nothing works.” It’s a tough place to get to and I am always grateful that these riders are sharing this and aren’t sitting in that feeling alone. The great thing about this sentiment is that it is born from frustration combined with a genuine desire to […]
As much as we try and minimise risks, falling off a horse is something that every rider will likely experience, but what happens next is crucial. The age-old advice to “just get back on” can sometimes do more harm than good. In this blog, I’ll explain why it’s important to pause, assess, and understand both […]
I am sure I am not alone in the experience of signing up for something and then having the “Oh my goodness, I actually have to do it now!” moment. What was yours? Mine, was auditioning for Chitty Chitty Bang Bang and now the show is just weeks away. Had a big wobble last week […]
As the days grow shorter and the air turns crisp, many horse riders find themselves reflecting on the year that’s passed and setting their sights on the horizons of the year to come. Horses riders are notorious for prioritising their horse’s needs….. However, just as our trusty steeds benefit from regular check-ups, so too do […]
The delightful Barney came into our lives a year ago. We had discussed the idea of getting a young horse but nothing seemed to fit. One message from Simon Charlesworth and something felt different. He was only 3 so I couldn’t see him ‘do’ much but I put a pole out in the school and […]
The culture of bravery in the horse world can be overwhelming. Strength, just ‘getting back on’ and getting on with it, riding whilst injured are often celebrated. It’s easy, in that set up, to forget the power of authenticity and vulnerability. I believe that when we allow ourselves to truly open up about our struggles […]
Moving stables can be an overwhelming experience, both for the owners and the horses themselves. Horses thrive on routine and familiarity almost as much as we do! I moved stables recently and was surprised by the impact it had so wanted to share some tips and advice with you to make the transition easier. Your […]